January recap

January tally

No dates

No cancellations

No nothing

Why? I was taking a break from dating after ending a situationship that I had since November.

If you don't know what a situationship is let me explain. It's not quite a relationship. Usually, for me, it's that stage I get to with every guy in the last two years, where it never progresses to an actual relationship.

The last one was definitely a waste of time but a learning experienc. Met "The Chef" on an app in November. He wasn't my normal type, but seemed sweet, was cute and seemed into me. But his work schedule sucked and that first month we did see each other several times. Then after one month, he could not find time for me for the next four weeks. He constantly made excuses. Cancelled last minute. Said he could only see me at 2am when he got off work.

After many times of me trying to break it off and telling him you can't give me what I want (my love language is quality time) and him asking me not to do that, I finally reached a breaking point.

After a month of not seeing him, he promised me he'd come over after work at 9, sleep over and take me out to breakfast the next day. Then at 7:30 that night, texted to say he had to work late and couldn't be there til 2am. I said no. He apologized. I didn't respond. If he had suggested breakfast was still on the next morning, I would have been happy. But nope. Didn't hear from him until three days later. Asked me if I hated him. Said nope. Never heard from him again.

It was a disappointment for sure. But I know he wasn't the one for me. On so many levels.

But that was January. February recap coming soon. Fingers crossed. Date tonight.

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