No Fucks Given Part 2

Here's a follow-up to yesterday's post. Cha Cha decided to show up for poorly planned date in her best black dickies, matching dickies belt, black pumas, and black long sleeve tee. My thoughts were, as previously stated in Part 1 yesterday, if he (Coach - because he coaches baseball) puts little effort into planning a real first date, then I'm putting zero effort into my appearance. Granted my hair and makeup were done because that's just me. But he wasn't getting a date night outfit.

Well this playa got played last night. I should have known better. A guy who is super into comics and Marvel and the such may actually like me in aforementioned outfit. Of course he fucking did. His first words were "you look so cute!"

I was a little skeptical going into this date because of the actual date itself but I was giving it a go because he seemed nice and we had some things in common. More so than most dates. He is actually quite handsome also.

We met at Dick's and then proceeded to walk around the mall. What the fuck. Am I 16 again? But you know what? He is actually really nice and funny and cute. So I'm overlooking this stupid date. In my head thinking if he wants a second date, he better plan a good one. I was even willing to overlook some things he told me about himself that would make me seem super shallow if I said no way (not going into details but it's regarding physical things - nothing crazy or perverted lol).

I was even willing to overlook the not-so-great kissing (which he bragged about prior). We sat in my car and chatted for a bit and then he full on kissed me. It. Was. Too. Much. But I'm thinking we can work on this.

But then he TOTALLY FUCKING LOST ME. All it took was one move. He took my hand and placed it on his <fill in the blank>. I retracted immediately. And that's when I pulled away and said I gotta go.

We followed up with some texts when we got home and he already noticed I was being curt and "different." I haven't heard from him today and won't be reaching out but if he does, I will be sure to mention why per one of my best friends Oregon (yea even my friends get nicknames).

It really pissed me off. Guys - please, if a girl wants her hand there, she will put it there. Don't do it for her. I really didn't fucking like that. It was a huge turn off.

Guys TRY to be a gentleman. Is it that fucking hard?

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