Resurrection
- chachacherry75
- Feb 26, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: Jun 1, 2022
Dang. It's been almost a year since I wrote. And A LOT has happened since my last post of April 2021. Quick recap... Last we left off I was dating someone in April casually. That ended on a very bad note in the summer where I literally lost myself to his verbal and emotional abuse before I stood up for myself.
Then in September I thought I had met the love of my life at the grocery store. He swept me off my feet for the next few months. Only to find out he cheated on me with his ex-girlfriend. It was devastating. But I'm a strong ass woman who has picked up the pieces many times before and I did again.
I find myself back in the dating pool and having fun. Meeting people. Going out on dates. Not dating with intent (as some say you should, i.e. date to marry, or date to find love). I'm meeting people, going out, having fun. It's that simple. If I find love again, awesome. If not, I've made some new friends, have some good times, get new funny content for the blog.
But of course, I already have some good stories...oh do I.
So far...I did get blindsided once already thinking there was potentially something special with someone from my past (a very handsome surfer sigh...) but I was clearly mistaken and that's ok. Gotta move on and not dwell.
And to all those who give me shit about dating and "looking to hard" and all those other bullshit cliches you say when you have nothing else to say - I just shake my head at you and chuckle. I'm 46. Living my life. Having fun. LET ME BE.
So cheers to Salty Girl Dating again...
Go on with your bad self now! To hell with what other people say. There is not right or wrong way to go about dating. It shouldn't be some chore, and it doesn't necessarily have to have some end point, some ultimate goal. It should make you feel good, and if it does, then keep doing what you're doing.